Turning your relationship on
Do you find you are in relationships where you do not feel heard?
Do you find your needs are not deeply met and you spend a large part of your time trying to negotiate with someone from another culture and language who simply stares at you dumb founded and reactive.
Do you find yourself accused of also not listening and that you only think of yourself or don’t seem to care. This can be devastating and lonely and does not need to.
Anyone can be in a relationship without skill just like most of us can breath to stay alive without yoga skill and yet the art of breathing can open up a spiritual world of mindfulness and peace. The relationship world through the art of conscious communication can open up a world of joy and happiness. This is where understanding and being understood is exquisite, sensual and tantalising.
Right through to a cellular level harmonious communication brings health and resonance as the molecular dance intertwines with meaning and support creating a most extraordinary universe.
It is recognized that the meaning of communication is only 7% words and yet we innocently try to use words to carry 100% of our meaning and can feel hurt when we are not understood or validated.
The art and science of conscious relating is worth exploring and can change what appears to be a futile relationship into a meaningful blessed connection that is felt exponentially. To be truly heard and validated is a sensual and tantric experience for both players and leads to inspiration and harmony. Truly conscious relating is available to everybody who feels something lacking in their world of human connection.
A simple recognition is that all people no matter how poor their communication might appear are intending to connect meaningfully. They often come across as aggressive, blame-filled and resistant and yet what their looking for is connection and validation.
Imagine being able to step through this confusion into a world of understanding and connecting there instead.